Fans may be shocked aboutAriana GrandeandPete Davidson‘sbreakup, but sources tell PEOPLE their inner circles are “relieved” that their months-longengagementis over.
“She threw herself into the relationship with Pete. She is young, but at least mature enough to realize this wasn’t the right relationship or the right time to get married,” an insider says.
“[Her loved ones] always thought the engagement to Pete happened way too quickly. They didn’t want her to get married to Pete. And Ariananever got to the wedding planning stage. It was all way too soon,” the insider shares.
TheSaturday Night Livestar, 24, proposed to the pop star, 25, in June just weeks after they began dating following Grande’sMay breakup from rapper Mac Miller, whodiedin September of a suspected overdose.
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“Ariana has had several stressful situations in the past couple of years. She really isn’t in a position to make huge life decisions. Her family thinks she should just focus on work and not stress about other stuff,” the insider says.
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In addition to giving back her 3-carat, $93Kengagement ring, Grande is no longer living with Davidson.
“Pete’s no longer at the house because why would he be? They broke up. He has no reason to go there,” says another insider. “Everyone on both sides are relieved it’s over.”
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Adds the source: “Pete has moved out. They are in contact, but not dating. Ariana is doing pretty well. Actually much better than expected.”
Davidson joked about his new living situation when he made hisfirst public appearancesince the pair’s split at a comedy benefit on Saturday in West Hollywood, California.
source: people.com